The Telling Touch

A sensitivity to touch can be indicative of an issue
A sensitivity to touch can be indicative of an issue

Some dogs are sensitive to being touched.  This shows in either a general or very specific way, depending on whether or not your dog is in some pain.  If you are not familiar with how dogs can show their state through reaction to your touch, you can learn.  Volunteering at a shelter or veterinarian’s office can help. A good handler can teach you a lot by simply doing what they do while you watch closely.  There is a way that dogs respond to someone who knows what they are doing that can go a long way to their well being.

If you feel like something is wrong or has changed for your furry child in terms of a sudden sensitivity to being touched, then go with your gut.  Be sure to document the change in touch toleration and bring those notes to your vet appointment.  Describe it for your vet in as much detail as you can, as that will help them to get a good idea of what you are seeing at home.

The Telling Touch

Pain can be hard to pin down in dogs. The more you can observe before the veterinary appointment, the more likely the veterinarian will be able to diagnose the problem. But be careful not to injure the dog in the process or get bitten. A “knowing touch” gathers information and communicates safety. It’s not rough and doesn’t make a dog fearful. This touch is part of what people describe as having “dog sense,” or “a way with dogs.” People probably inherit the potential to learn good dog handling, but they don’t become good handlers unless they also learn the skills.  (Read more)

You do want to be careful since a dog will protect themselves with both humans and other dogs if they are in pain.  If you know that your dog is in pain, then keeping other dogs away will help with any jostling or bumping into the painful region that might be happening.  This will help with fights among the dogs or the ‘accident’ that might occur when your dog is afraid of getting hurt while going outside with other dogs. If need be, escort your dog outside or keep him back while the others go out first, then let him know it is safe by guiding him out, etc.  When you provide protection for your dog, they will really love you and appreciate your care.

If your dog suddenly doesn’t want to take an action that was fine for him before, don’t assume they are just being stubborn.  Consider a physical reason first and pay attention to his ‘tells’.  More often than not, some simple observation will let you know what is going on.

 

 

When Is Your Dog “Old”?

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There is no one “right” answer to this question.  Just as people age differently, so do dogs.  What is ‘senior’ in one dog might still be ‘middle aged’ in another dog of the same years.  Do pay attention though, and see if their eyes seem a bit cloudy or if they cannot hear you as well as they used to.  Of course, changes in cognitive function are worth noting and if they seem to forget the ‘rules’ of the house suddenly, that could be an indication of a change in their thought process.

How you care for your fur baby may need to change and it is best if you do not get too stressed out.  Accept that they are going to be a bit of a different dog from now on and keep an open mind.  If you need to get support, see if your local shelter or canine groups offer a place where you can get help and talk to other dog parents to see if they have advice.  You are not alone, so reach out if you need to!

Senility In Older Dogs

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Changes in behavior could be an indication that your dog is experiencing senility or cognitive dysfunction, especially if your dog is over 6-7 years of age.  When you notice theses things, like accidents in the house, wandering aimlessly and changes in their eating or drinking habits, it may be time for a trip to the vet.  Together, you can assess the situation and see about coming up with a plan for dealing with the issues.

It can be so hard to see your sweet baby dog age and not be the same dog that they once were.  Much of the same changes that we see older humans go through, dogs go through as well. Patience and a little extra love can go a long way in helping your dog continue to feel safe and secure in your home.

 

Helping Your Older Dog With Touch That Heals

Learn more about TTouch therapy for your dog
Learn more about TTouch therapy for your dog

When your lovely fur pet is in pain it can be hard to know what to do or where to turn.  Expensive medications are not always the answer – especially when you know that many times they hurt just as much as they are supposed to help.  More and more pet parents are turning to non-invasive and natural therapies to help ease their pet’s pain and discomfort.

A method that might be worth looking into is the TTouch (pronounced ‘tee-touch’) method.  This is a form of systematic and therapeutic touch that helps to stimulate healing and communication with the dog.  Let’s hear more from Whole-Dog-Journal.com about this awesome option.

Helping Your Older Dog With Touch That Heals

The TTouch method was developed by Linda Tellington-Jones. The Canadian horsewoman had a long background in horse training and massage, but in 1970s, she began studying with Dr. Moshe Feldenkrais, an Israeli physicist. Feldenkrais had developed a method of gentle manipulation of the human body, designed to improve pain and movement. He believed that by engaging non-habitual movement, you might be able to activate unused neural pathways to the brain and expand the potential to learn. Tellington-Jones’ study of the Feldenkrais method of “Awareness Through Movement” sparked a shift in her thinking about touch and movement in animals.  (Read more)

This is not just petting!  The TTouch looks to engage the parasympathetic nervous system.  This engagement helps by relaxing the muscles and lowering the heart rate, blood pressure and getting those stress levels way down.  When that stress is removed, often, that memory associated with the stress can be removed from the cells as well with a little encouragement.

TTouch has been studied to find out how it does what it does.  At the Biofeedback Institute in Boulder, Colorado the method was shown to create altered brain waves.  It could be seen that the specific touches were able to not only relax the animal’s body and brain, it also served to stimulate a more alert and cognitive state.  This helped to switch out the previous pattern of behavior and replace it with a different perspective that was more focused on the ‘now’ and letting the dog move from a place of pain, to a place of comfort and healing.  And the best part?  No drugs or anything harmful for your beloved dog!

 

Best Valentine’s For The Best Dog

hugs and kisses are a great Valentine's Day present!
hugs and kisses are a great Valentine’s Day present!

Of course, on this day of love you don’t want to leave out the one’s that love you most!  Your beautiful pooch deserves some special attention and to know that you have not let this day go by without a nod to all the wet kisses, snuggles and happy welcomes that they have thrown your way throughout the year.

But silly get ups or possibly dangerous treats should be avoided if possible.  Yes, your fur baby is just too cute for words and a heart hat would really make you happy – but that might not be as meaningful to your dog.  What do dog’s want?  You know what they want!  Here are a couple of ideas for you, just in case you are stumped.

Best Valentine’s For The Best Dog

*Take your pet for a long walk. Play ball outside an extra fifteen minutes. Cuddle longer than usual while watching TV.

*Many pets love socializing with other dogs. Arrange an exceptional Valentine’s present for your pet. Instead of being home alone while you are at work, reserve “day care” providing your pet a time to romp and play.  (Read more)

You could also think about giving them a great bath treatment to help them feel good and comfortable during these dry winter months…or you could give them an extra massage, or whip up a special treat of their favorite, good for them, foods.

Your time and attention is what they really crave, so think outside the box and give your fur baby a loving present that they would really appreciate and enjoy.  Spoiling them with your love is always the right way to go, plus it could be a little easier on your pocketbook as well!

Wraps And Touch Help Senior Dogs Heal

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This video shows how wraps for your dog can help them in a number of ways.  If the dog is feeling stiff or achy, the wraps can add support to the joints that make it more comfortable to move about and walk.  If they are nervous or feeling quite tense, then the wraps can help them to feel secure and confident.  It all depends on you testing out how to wrap your dog in a way that aids overall well being.  When you find a pattern that works, you can stick with it!

Touch is so important too.  I’ll address touch in a separate post so that you can learn more about using it help heal your wonderful dog.  Sometimes, the issue might be an injury or illness, or it may just be a kind of emotional or nervous condition that is ailing your fur baby.  No matter what, touch can really ease their discomfort, which in turn, eases yours.

Old Friends Make Great Friends

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This is the story of Suryia the Orangutan and Roscoe the  dog.  While walking along through the animal park one morning, Suryia and her handler were surprised when a malnourished dog crossed their path.  The handler was quite surprised when the dog seemed to not be afraid of the Orangutan and even more surprised when Suryia just went right over to give the dog a big hug!  The two have become the best of friends and the old hound dog, Roscoe, has given Suryia a companion of the highest grade.  Dogs are so loving and loyal and this older dog seems patient and understanding of all the ways Suryia shows her affection.  Much like the ever loving way that many dogs endure the loving tugs and pulls that children put them through!  Roscoe is a great example of why older dogs rock!

They Are Still With Us

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In this video, famed pet physic Sonya Fitzpatrick explains that sometimes a FurBaby does not understand our attachment to its remains or why we do the things we do sometimes when we are grieving.  To the animals, they know that they remain with us in spirit to continue to love and support us…so why would be holding on so dearly to their ashes?

Sonya discusses a client that had a hard time parting with his beloved pet, and the pet thought it was rather funny because he was right there with his dad all the time.  Hopefully this makes you feel good as well if you have a FurBaby that has passed on.  They remain with us and the love lives on, we just need to realize that they won’t leave us and that we can speak to them and make a connection with them when ever we want!

 

 

The Rainbow Bridge Story

The basics of the story behind the Rainbow Bridge stem in part from a wonderful poem written by William N. Britton back in 1994.  In this poem, Britton describes the beautiful pet heaven that awaits each and every lovely pet that passes on.  Their spirits are taken to lovely meadows where they want for nothing, getting to eat,  play and be together in a wonderful place while they await their pet parent on the other side.

In this beautiful land, they are no longer in any pain or discomfort and everything they need or want is there and they live in happiness.  Then, among their friends they keep and eye and ear out…waiting to see us come up over the bridge calling their name.  They are so happy to know that they have been missed as much as they missed you – and they are so happy to hear you call their name!  They go running up to welcome you to the other side and to finally have the opportunity to be with you again.

The Rainbow Bridge
The Rainbow Bridge

It is a beautiful poem and one worth checking out.  You can read the full version by clicking here: http://www.legendofrainbowbridge.com/poem.html

Do you have any of your own poems that you would like to share? We would love to read them and share them if that is okay with you!  Put them in the comments section below and let us know if it is okay or not if we share them with everyone else.

A Tribute To All The Great Dogs

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This video pays tribute to how wonderful a dog’s love really is.  Sometimes they are treated to badly and yet you can still see the love in their eyes.  They love unconditionally and will be there for you as much as you will allow.  So many humans could learn so much about love and acceptance from a dog.  Their life long goal is to enjoy themselves and you as much as they can.  If only every dog was loved the way they deserved…

Losing Your FurBaby – Online Support

When pets die, they cross the rainbow bridge into a better place where the weather is always great and they can play all day!
When pets die, they cross the rainbow bridge into a better place where the weather is always great and they can play all day!

More and more places are popping up online for pet parents dealing with the eminent passing of their baby or for pet parents who have already lost their beloved pets.  These places offer many different options to help you deal with whatever stage of grief you may be in.  These are so welcome and can really help the process for so many.  As you prepare for your furbaby to cross the Rainbow Bridge over to the other side, you may have questions or need help in getting through each day.  Of perhaps you would like a safe place to upload pictures or videos or your writings to memorialize your beloved pet.

The good news is that there are places online where you can go to get help and support.  This is so important to your own health and ability to properly release any stress or pain you may be dealing with.  When you know you have people that really understand what you are going through, then the grieving processes will not be so difficult or last longer than it needs to.  Take a look at a tiny bit of what RainbowBridge.com has to say about what it offers.

Losing Your FurBaby – Online Support

Rainbows Bridge is a home for your departed baby. Whether furry, feathered or scaled, all are welcome. Create a Rainbow Residency which you care for as the Guardian of your baby’s memory. Meet others who are grieving the loss of a loved one and begin the journey to healing a broken heart.

When you create a Rainbow Residency you become the Guardian, able to visit as often as you wish to leave new toys and treats, create a photo album, change the flowers, shrubbery and season of the residency and leave special memories you shared with your Baby.  (Read more)

Check out the site and let us know if it helped you in any way.  If you have questions about the grieving process or about dealing with your pet getting older, please let us know. We understand and will do whatever we can to help you in such a painful time in your life.

 

Grieve Your Way

Your love is unique....deal with the passing of your dog your way
Your love is unique….deal with the passing of your dog your way

Did you know that it is estimated that over half of the world’s population has a pet in their home?  That means that it is highly likely that about half of the world’s population will also experience the death of that pet within their lifetime.  Because people are so different and their pets are also so different and each relationship is unique, it follows that each pet parent deals with the death of their pet in a different way.

While the subject of grieving over the death of a pet has been discussed more and more in recent years, there is still a bit of stigma against truly grieving for a pet, as well as a bit of a lack of understanding about how it ‘should’ go.  First, there is no one way to grieve and no way that it ‘should’ be done. Your love is unique and how you chose to honor that love is a personal decision.  Second, there may still be a misunderstanding about how much the death of a beloved pet can affect a person.  An article on Oprah.com says that some psychologists report that the relationship with an animal is easier than a relationship with another human…that a relationship with a pet is free from the kind of complications that are involved with humans and thus more pure. This pure relationship can then throw you when your pet becomes sick and when it is apparent that they are nearing the end of their lives.  What do you do? Where do you go?

Grieve Your Way

Dr. Amir Shanan, who runs the Compassionate Veterinary Care facility and is one of the country’s leading veterinarians on hospice practices, euthanasia and end-of-life conversations, urges grieving “pet parents,” as he calls them, to consider all the options. “We don’t have a lot of control over the fact that we’re losing our pet,” Dr. Shanan explains. “We still have control over a lot of things, and having that control can make a really big difference in how we experience the grief.”

Dr. Shanan feels that working with a vet to explore options is the best course of action, such as providing pets with hospice care at home, acupuncture, and exploring holistic medicines to provide comfort to a pet with an illness. (Read more)

Doing some research about what services are offered in your area just might be pretty eye opening and helpful.  When you are supported and able to follow your heart in how you express your love and care for your pet, everything gets just a little bit easier.  Think about allowing yourself to memorialize your pet in your own way.  A letter to your pet telling him/her how they affected your life could help you to get those feelings out.  Speaking with friends and family could also help, as well as speaking with other pet owners on forums or other places where pet parents meet.

However you choose to grieve – remember that your depth of feeling is perfectly natural and normal and should be dealt with in a way that feels right to you.